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Pancakes Without Me

He didn’t want help. Just space. It was only pancakes—but also, not small at all.


This morning, Anthony wanted to make pancakes.

On his own.

Not help. Not “let’s do it together.”

Just him.

I was there, in the kitchen, but he didn’t want me hovering.

“I’ve got it,” he said.

So I stepped back.

I stayed close—just in case—but not too close.

He made the batter. Heated the pan. Watched the edges like I taught him.

They came out pretty good.

And he was proud.

He didn’t need a high five or a photo. Just the space to do it.

It’s a small thing—pancakes.

But also, not small at all.